Staying young in times of double parenthood - in dialogue with growing children and aging parents

  • Heinrich Dauber
Keywords: Parenthood in the sandwich model, relations between the generations, Marcus Aurelius, André Gorz, Martin Buber

Abstract

Focusing on three quotations of famous philosophers (Marcus Aurelius, André Gorz and Martin Buber) the article discusses the lifelong changing relations between adults, their children and their parents in the specific biographic context of the sandwich generation. Three different challenges are proposed: awareness, without critical examination for the different conditions in which today’s younger gene ration are growing up; questioning one’s own beliefs to find a new integral identity between the generations; starting a new beginning mindset by initiating a deep dialogue with our children and through this, accepting and connecting the general rainbow between life and death.

Author Biography

Heinrich Dauber

Dr.phil *1944, three sons, five grandchildren. 1965-72 primary and secondary school teacher; parallel second degree in psychology, educational science and ev. theology; 1978-2009 professor for educational science at the University of Kassel; 1980-1990 further education in Gestalt therapy/integrative body and movement therapy, grad. FPI, Düsseldorf; 1997-2002 further education in playback theatre, School of Playback Theatre New York, grad. practitioner IPTN. Supervisor in the German Society for Supervision. Founding member of the Commission 'Pedagogy and Humanistic Psychology' in the German Society for Educational Science (DGfE). Member of the editorial board of the journal Bewusstseinswissenschaften. e-mail: Heinrich.Dauber@gmail.com

Published
2014-07-18